Monday, November 30, 2009

a Puritan's prayer
The Valley of Vision, p.15


When I think upon and converse with thee
ten thousand delightful thoughts spring up,
ten thousand sources of pleasure are unsealed,
ten thousand refreshing joys spread over my heart,
crowding into every moment of happiness.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving

Psalm 103

1Praise the LORD, O my soul;
all my inmost being, praise his holy name.

2 Praise the LORD, O my soul,
and forget not all his benefits-

3 who forgives all your sins
and heals all your diseases,

4 who redeems your life from the pit
and crowns you with love and compassion,

5 who satisfies your desires with good things
so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's.


When someone says Thanksgiving, I almost immediately think of homemade rolls and pies and sweet potatoes with marshmallows on top--and then my mind drifts to being happy about all the stuff I have, the shopping that Friday... but aren't those thoughts a bit misconstrued in light of why we celebrate Thanksgiving Day?




Imagine yourself with the Pilgrims after finishing the TWO MONTH journey across the ocean. That first winter, within 3 months, HALF of the pilgrims who arrived on the Mayflower died. Starvation, scurvy and varieties of other illnesses took men, women and children's lives.

The following Spring they made contact with the Native Indians, who taught them how to harvest and catch food -- thus preserving their lives. And even this part of the story is remarkable! Squanto, the name that litters children's Thanksgiving literature, had been taken as a slave from his home years before. (I wish I could get HIS story on the Pearl Girl blog. I would love to see how God changed his heart from bitterness and resentment to serving these newcomers after a story like that!) God had provided Squanto not only an escape from slavery, and way back to America, but also to learn about Christ and accept Him.

As the first Thanksgiving rolled around, only four adult women were left alive. (WOAH.)

In comparison to the average American today, the Pilgrims didn't have much to speak of. They had lost family and friends, most of their possessions stayed in Europe and they had experienced the most lean meals we could imagine. But, wonderfully, our God commands us to give thanks and have our joy fulfilled in HIM despite tragedy.

(Pretty far from the ridiculous,lavish memories I recalled above, huh?! And yet so much more rich in the Lord!) The Pilgrims and Native Americans focused beyond their differences and pain to give thanks to a God who cared about the, took care of them and OBVIOUSLY had a plan for them.

Many years later, President George Washington recommended the national holiday in these words,

Whereas it is the duty of all Nations to acknowledge the providence of Almighty God, to obey his will, to be grateful for his benefits, and humbly to implore his protection and favor, and whereas both Houses of Congress have by their joint Committee requested me "to recommend to the People of the United States a day of public thanksgiving and prayer to be observed by acknowledging with grateful hearts the many signal favors of Almighty God especially by affording them an opportunity peaceably to establish a form of government for their safety and happiness.

Now therefore I do recommend and assign Thursday the 26th day of November next to be devoted by the People of these States to the service of that great and glorious Being, who is the beneficent Author of all the good that was, that is, or that will be. That we may then all unite in rendering unto him our sincere and humble thanks, for his kind care and protection of the People of this Country previous to their becoming a Nation, for the signal and manifold mercies, and the favorable interpositions of his providence, which we experienced in the course and conclusion of the late war, for the great degree of tranquility, union, and plenty, which we have since enjoyed, for the peaceable and rational manner, in which we have been enabled to establish constitutions of government for our safety and happiness, and particularly the national One now lately instituted, for the civil and religious liberty with which we are blessed; and the means we have of acquiring and diffusing useful knowledge; and in general for all the great and various favors which he hath been pleased to confer upon us.

And also that we may then unite in most humbly offering our prayers and supplications to the great Lord and Ruler of Nations and beseech him to pardon our national and other transgressions, to enable us all, whether in public or private stations, to perform our several and relative duties properly and punctually, to render our national government a blessing to all the people, by constantly being a Government of wise, just, and constitutional laws, discreetly and faithfully executed and obeyed, to protect and guide all Sovereigns and Nations (especially such as have shown kindness unto us) and to bless them with good government, peace, and concord. To promote the knowledge and practice of true religion and virtue, and the encrease of science among them and Us, and generally to grant unto all Mankind such a degree of temporal prosperity as he alone knows to be best.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Monday, November 23, 2009

Interview with Jane Cook

Jane Hampton Cook, co-author of Stories of Faith and Courage from the War in Iraq and Afghanistan, agreed to let us interview her. I hope even her words about the book are able to bless you. At the end she encourages us to have a red, white and blue Thanksgiving.


What motivated you and your co-authors to write Stories of Faith and Courage from the War in Iraq and Afghanistan?

A few years ago, AMG Publishers created one of the most unique, powerful devotional series ever produced called Battlefields and Blessings. The first two volumes focused on the Civil War by Terry Tulley and the Revolutionary War, which I wrote. We decided the time was ripe to focus on Iraq and Afghanistan. Many people who have served in those conflicts come home with a story to tell but don’t want to write an entire book. This series gives them a chance to tell their story in a short form.

This book is in a unique format. Tell me about its organization.

Stories of Faith and Courage from the War in Iraq and Afghanistan is a devotional and features 365 stories, which include a scripture and prayer for each day. These first-hand accounts give the book an eclectic feel, a distinct mixture of perspectives, a kaleidoscope on faith and courage in combat. Although the book starts in January, you could pick it up and begin reading it at any point in the year.

What will people gain from reading this book?

I think people will really gain a better understanding of just what is happening in Iraq and Afghanistan. They will see the human side in a way that our modern sound-bite media just can’t portray. I also think this book will especially help family members who have a loved one deployed. They can better understand what their son or daughter or husband or wife might be going through without having to bombard them with questions.

How did you find your sources, the people who are featured in the book?

We simply networked and told friends and colleagues that we were looking for stories. I live in the Washington DC area, which includes thousands of military personnel from all branches. I often met people at church or other places who knew someone. One of my sources came from an old friend that I reconnected with on Facebook. Sometimes I interviewed the source; sometimes they sent me a hundred emails that they had sent during their deployment. My coauthors followed similar leads.

What are some of the most interesting stories or what surprised you the most?

I was surprised at some of the unusual ethical challenges some of these service members faced, such as the military endocrinologist who was called to treat Saddam Hussein, who had a thyroid problem. This physician found himself literally with his hands around Saddam’s neck—something few have lived to tell about!—and treated him just like he would any other patient.

After Saddam’s due process trial by the Iraqis and execution, an army sergeant and his team got the call to pick up Saddam’s remains. Saddam’s family wanted him buried in his hometown of Tikrit, not Baghadad. The sergeant was a part of a unit that regularly recovered the remains of military personnel killed in combat, so it made sense for the U.S. government to tap their experience with such a delicate situation. When they arrived they were immersed into intense security by the U.S. Secret Service. They flew Saddam’s body to his hometown for burial. This sergeant was tempted to take a photograph of the deceased Saddam but instead he took a picture of himself. Whenever he looks at that photo of himself, he is reminded of the day he saw the death of one of the most evil men of the last half-century.

A female Marine captain shared with me her honest assessment of fear. The times she thought she would be scared, such as going into Fallujah after the invasion of the city, she wasn’t. Other times when she expected to feel safe, she found herself fearful. Because she was a woman, she often spent the night alone in a 50-man tent without electricity. Those were the most uneasy times. But, she found strength in living in the moment with God’s presence to comfort her.

When you heard about the tragedy at Fort Hood, did it remind you of any stories from your book in any way?

Like the Pentagon on September 11, 2001, Fort Hood suddenly became the battlefield. A home base on American soil is where military members feel the most secure. I interviewed the deputy chief of chaplains for the Air Force. He was at the Pentagon on Sept. 11. Had he not stopped for a latte at a cafeteria on his way to a meeting, he would have been in the side of the building that was hit by the plane. On most days, there are only 5 or 6 chaplains in the entire Pentagon complex. On Sept. 11, there were 35 on site. They had come for a variety of different meetings. These chaplains gathered at ground zero and stepped into their role of comforting people and doing what they could to offer hope and practical assistance. Rank disappeared as generals lined up with privates to risk going back into the building to search for survivors. At Fort Hood, you saw the same kind of response, people immediately stepping in to help. Rank no longer mattered in the face of danger and tragedy.

President Obama has been considering sending Gen. McChrystal’s request to send more troops to Afghanistan. What insight do you have about military leadership?

I learned from a gentleman who served as a command chaplain to General Petraeus about the concept of moral leadership. The soldier or marine or airmen (or women) demonstrate raw physical courage to fulfill their mission while protecting themselves and the buddy next to them. Generals are tasked with another form of courage: moral leadership.

Command chaplains play a role in moral courage. They do more than offer spiritual support for generals and their officers. They become the eyes and ears of the commanding general by going out into the field and assessing how the troops are doing. They observe meetings with the purpose of making sure good ideas didn’t go unnoticed. Because a service member can talk freely with a chaplain without fear of repercussion, command chaplains are often in the position of ascertaining the truth of what’s going on—better than others in many cases. The command chaplain plays a listening role on the battlefield, which is something I didn’t know before.

Thanksgiving is one of our nation’s most significant holidays and often we hear stories about how the troops are spending Thanksgiving away from home. What insight do you have about Thanksgiving?

Not only did our founding fathers give us the colors red, white, and blue, they also gave us defined those colors to help us remember to be thankful for our freedom. We can use those colors as a great method for giving thanks. By simply looking at a flag, we can give thanks for three things:

Red means courage, which is a perfect reminder for giving thanks for our country and the members of the military who have made so many sacrifices for us.

White means innocence and purity, which remind us to be thankful for our children and families. Blue means watchfulness and perseverance, which is a fantastic way to remember to thankful for the blessings of the past year—the purpose of Thanksgiving.

Giving thanks often helps people get through a tough time. Several members of the military shared with me that counting their blessings was a great coping strategy for surviving the challenges of the battlefield.

This book is dedicated to those who have lived loudly for liberty, what does that mean and where did that idea come from?

Our nation’s founders carried the American dream in their hearts. All they wanted was to live a quiet life, but instead they lived loudly for liberty. They gave up their quiet life to stand firm for a cause greater than themselves. The members of the military carry on that legacy—the legacy of George Washington, Benjamin Franklin, John Adams, Henry Knox and hundreds of others. As a result, the military deserves our gratitude. They have made sacrifices that we can not begin to understand. They’ve done it because they love their country and believe in the principles of freedom. They are living loudly for liberty for us and for the freedom of those Americans to come. That is something to be thankful for.


Jane Cook is an author, historian and fellow pearl girl. Whether speaking publicly, writing or analyzing current events, Jane focuses on tops that transcend generations, such as courage, freedom, patriotism, leadership, communication and womanhood. You can find out more about her and her books at http://www.janecook.com

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Guest Blogger ... Mary DeMuth

Suffering Alone?


This has been percolating in me the past few days. Bits and pieces come to me as I think about isolation and suffering. What happens if we suffer alone? Does it matter? Make a difference? Indicate a tinge of our own significance?

Job suffered alone.

Yes, he had his wife and his well-meaning friends, but in the depth of his pain, he felt abandoned. Not one soul seemed to understand. Not one person shouldered his grief fully.

We live in the world of Facebook, Twitter, and texting. At any moment of the day, we can be virtually surrounded by "friends." But we are a lonely people. We crave community. We do not want to suffer alone.

And yet, sometimes God calls us to a journey that feels scary and isolated. Why? I'm not intelligent enough to understand the heart or mind of the Almighty. But I can say I've grown deep roots during loneliness. And I've found more and more of Jesus in those forsaken places.

In Job 26, Job recounts the greatness of God, how other than us He is. He rebukes and the world trembles. He quiets the waters with a word. Be fascinated by the way this chapter ends:

"By His breath the heavens are cleared; His hand has pierced the fleeing serpent. Behold these are the fringes of His ways; And how faint a word we hear from Him! But His mighty thunder, who can understand?" (13-14, NASB).

We serve a powerful, surprising God. And if we suffer patiently and with faith, we'll begin to catch the fringes of His ways.

But what's the point of suffering? Are we like Job, suffering to prove our integrity? Why go through all that? Why alone?

One answer comes from a favorite book, When God Weeps by Joni Earekson Tada. She writes of her good friend John who suffers from a debilitating illness. And mostly, he suffers alone:

"God's purpose is to teach millions of unseen beings about Himself; and we are a blackboard upon which God is drawing lessons about Himself for the benefit of angels and demons. God gets glory every time the spirit world learns how powerful His everlasting arms are in upholding the weak. They learn it is God who permeates every fiber of John's being with perseverance. My friend's life is not a waste. Although not many people seem to care, someone--a great many someones--care more than John can imagine. John's life does something else. It disgusts Satan. The trust John shows God drives the Devil up a wall." (p. 108).

I gain perspective when I read and re-read this passage. Our suffering, even if it's completely alone, matters. Our praise in the midst of pain means something. It deals a blow to the Enemy of our Souls. It testifies to the angels that God is strong when we are weak and needy.

If you suffer alone today, consider deeply these words. God sees. He sees you. Even if you feel completely bereft of relationships, if you are friendless or some sort of pariah. He knows. He suffered in like manner on the cross. Disrobed, disgraced, and bloodied, He cried the agonizing cry, forsaken by friends, lost to the Father in a holy moment. He's been there. He'll meet you in the lonely, shattered places.

I know because I've been there before. Like Job, I've looked back in retrospect in those dark, lonely moments and said these words:

"I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees You" (Job 42:5).

Suffering alone changes our vision. We may have heard God in the past, but through the crucible of suffering, we see God. See Him! And suddenly the crying in the dark feels like a part of the journey toward knowing Him in an entirely new way. Not only do we shake the heavenlies when we praise through our trials, we move from hearing to seeing the Almighty.

If you are suffering alone today, take heart. Praise Him in the midst of the darkness. Praising God while the tumult swirls is great spiritual warfare. And wait in anticipation for the day you see God more clearly.

The lonely journey is worth it. It is.

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Mary is an aspiring gourmet cook, a sometimes tri-athlete (note emphasis on sometimes), and a passionate follower of Jesus. She's in love with her husband and kids and is zealous about writing and speaking.

Her deepest dream is to see stories—hers and others—change your life as they've changed hers.

Visit her on her website: http://www.marydemuth.com/index.php

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Guest blogger ... Dorrie Best

Contentment

In one sentence, what is contentment, in your own words?
Contentment is trusting that God has sovereignly chosen what is best for me because He loves me and He is good.

What fruits of the Spirit do you think of when you think of someone who is content?

Peace, joy, patience.

What is one practical way you practice contentment?
Choosing not to compare my lot with others. Thanking God for my circumstances& my roles in life.

Is there a particular verse that reminds you or helps you to be content?
Ps 139:16 "All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be."

Additional comments:
Contentment comes from accepting our circumstances from Gods hand. God gives us contentment as He infuses the truth of His word into our minds, it will transform our thinking.

Here are some quotes from Linda Dillows book "Calm my Anxious Heart" that really help me:
  • "If we're trusting God that His portion for us is best, we can make the choices that will bring us a heart of contentment. If we don't accept God's portion for us, we will become women with discontented spirits."
  • "We grow up when we see our life and our role from God's perspective; when we thank God for the role he has assigned us and begin to see our cup as a gift instead of a cross; when each morning we ask, "God, how can I glorify you today in my given role?"
  • "All of us desperately need contentment, a state of inner peace separate from our circumstances. Ultimately, contentment is more a shift in attitude then a change in circumstances. Paul shifted his attitude by choosing not to be anxious and instead to pray specifically with thanksgiving. He choose to dwell on the positives even though his life was filled with negatives. As a result, he experienced the peace of God."

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These wise words come from Dorrie Best, a fabulous mother of 7 and grandmother of 5. Dorrie not only stays home with and homeschools her younger children, but she also cared for her elderly mother who lived with them until her passing last month and works hard to keep her husband, who was diagnosed with MS a couple of years ago, as healthy as possible.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Guest Blogger ... Dena Dyer


Be sure to check out Dena's wonderful blog, Mother Inferior and sign up for her FaithLifts!


Developing a Gratitude Attitude

"Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus" (Eph. 5:19-20, NIV).

Have you ever tried gratitude journaling? By that, I mean writing down four or five things a day that you're grateful for. The rewards of such a discipline are numerous -- time with God, time with self, and (hopefully) a new outlook on life.

"There is always something in life to be grateful for," says Georgia Shaffer, author of A Gift of Mourning Glories and a cancer, divorce, and job loss survivor. "Even the victims of the Holocaust -- like Corrie Ten Boom -- found things to be thankful for in concentration camps. If you have to, just look at God's creation."

Start with your relationship to Christ. Has he helped you through tough times? Made you more patient?

Sherry Corley is a committed journaler. "The best thing about journaling is that God uses it to help me find peace in the midst of turmoil," she says.

Her advice to others who want to get started, but feel hopeless or helpless about life? "Sit down and pray that God will speak to you. Then begin to jot down everything that comes to your head. Just let the pen flow, holding nothing back. If you don't see God's answer immediately, wait a couple of days and go back to your journal. It's amazing how God can speak through journaling."

Another great technique is scripture journaling. In Words that Hurt, Words that Heal, Carole Mayhall writes: "Look up three things in Scripture tomorrow morning for which to thank the Lord. Then add three things from the world around you. Each morning add one more from both the Word and blessings God has given you. Then ask God to help you come back to those things and thank Him throughout the day. My hope would be that after a month, you will have learned some new thought patterns that will take over for the rest of your life."

How to Create your own Gratitude Journal:

1. Find something to write in, whether it's a three-ring notebook or a fancy bound book. "Find something that fits you and makes you want to stick with it," says Shaffer.

2. Find a space and a place.

3. Make time to write -- preferably the same time each day.

4. Write whatever is on your mind. "Don't edit yourself," says Shaffer.

5. Be content with your own speed and methods. Says author Luci Shaw: "Your journal is a process, as well as a product."

Lord, develop in me a thankful heart, that I will daily "Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits." (Ps. 103:2).


Copyright © 2003, by Dena J. Dyer. Used by permission.

Dena Dyer is a busy wife, mom, and entertainer and she is constantly losing things—but she’s holding onto her sanity (barely). Her favorite forms of therapy? Cuddling with her two sons, date nights with her hubby, reading, and blogging.

Dena is thankful for her creative life, which is varied and full. In between driving carpools, helping her boys with homework, and shuttling kids to soccer practice, she writes, speaks to women’s groups, and performs part-time at a Christian-owned professional music theater, Rockbox Theater.
Her husband, Carey, works alongside her as a principal cast member at Rockbox Theater. The couple met in a post-college singing group and dated “on the road” before marrying in 1995. “Carey’s my best friend and my biggest fan, and I’m so thankful God has given us each other. I couldn’t pursue my dreams without him,” Dena says. “He even cooks!” (Sorry, ladies—he’s taken.)

Her publishing credits include the books Grace for the Race: Meditations for Busy Moms and Mothers of the Bible (both with Barbour), compilations such as Chicken Soup for the Sister’s Soul Woman’s World and HomeLife, and tips for Working Mother, Family Circle and Parenting.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Guest Blogger ... Stephanie Garvey

Perspective
(from a mom of toddlers)



Children, children, children. Wow. While definitely a blessing, they can really get at you, huh? My boys (1 &3) had ants in their pants Monday, so I got out the chalk and gave them a rag to clean off their chalkboard before proceeding. Great! This gives me some time to catch up on reading for 2 minutes and returning emails for 2 minutes! :) 4 minutes later I went over to make sure they were being good. And what I found was a perfect picture of original sin. They were wetting their blue and red pieces of chalk with the rag I had given them and writing all over the carpet (which they knew was a huge no-no)! I had David(3) help me clean it up for the next 15 minutes. I was so grateful it was coming up that I figured it was okay that I was spending my time cleaning it. As I finished the last little streak a noise caught my attention. It was a scribbling noise. I looked over to see Liam (1) aggressively marking the light colored wall with black crayon. Don't get frustrated this won't take that long to clean up. Wrong again! After I ushered my little stinkers outside to play, I used every household cleaner I had looked at several websites for advice and still there was large gashes of black all over the wall. Finally I covered the art work in soda paste and decided to leave it for the rest of the day. You might think that those little boys could do no wrong in a fenced backyard, but no, they had taken a magazine as I was pushing them out the door and had shredded it. All. Over. The. Deck.

That was it.

Nap time came early yesterday and I stomped back downstairs with the camera so I could show my husband what a disaster the house was that morning before I cleaned it up. I decided that I had to stand on the counter to get the full affect of the mess. It wasn't enough that I had just had to leave all my family and friends to live in a new place with no help? They had to be BAD, too?! I grumbled as I climbed up onto the counter. But as looked through the lens I started laughing.

From that perspective I could see all the stations of playing and creating where my boys had been all morning...that had given them joy, entertainment and opportunities to gain wisdom on what is right and wrong. God brought back to mind when we were hiking in the Alps.


I could be near one of the most breathtaking sights of my life, but if I just looked at the dirt path and my shoes trudging along, I would never appreciate those glorious mountains. God was letting me see Monday morning through a new perspective. And I need that.

Or all I will see is dirt.
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Stephanie Garvey has moved 6 times in the last 14 months, but currently is in the beautiful NorthWest. She is a stay at home mom of 2 energetic boys and lucky wife of their dad. You can catch up on their latest and greatest at www.thejoycenteredlife.blogspot.com

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